Why Our Future Self is Weak and How to Make it STRONG

Our present day self is strong but future self is weak!

This is often the case when it comes to sticking to our goals and commitments.

Let me explain…

When we set ourselves a goal, in that very moment we are almost certain that nothing will knock us off course.

We are adamant that we will follow through and that we will stick to the plan.

Whether that goal is increasing sales, getting booked for speaking, writing a book, getting in shape…The list goes on.

In our present day moment we are strong…

But often our future self is weak.

We can give in, we lose focus, we get tired, we lose motivation…It’s human nature.

This is why we need boundaries or what I like to call “Red Lines”.

Lines that we do not cross and minimum standards of action we WILL follow through on 85-90% of the time…

…Regardless of our thoughts, feelings or emotions.

Without these in place we have no real accountability strategy or warning signs to let us know we are drifting off course.

So do your future self a favour and get in place your red lines around:

Business
Health
Family
Personal development
Down time

If you are a HIGH performing Man and want to up level your income, results and fulfilment…Then I have something for you…

The 3 Powerful Shifts Every High Performing Business Man Needs to Know If He Wants to up Level Himself, His Business and His Life.

On Tuesday 15th September I’m going to guide a small group of ambitious men through a 60 min online session.

The purpose of this session is to create 3 powerful mindset shifts to help each attendee move forward and “unlock their fullest potential” in themselves, in their business and in their life!

Most business leaders desire to create an incredible life for themselves by using their business as a vehicle to do so. Whether that is using their business to create more money, more freedom or more fulfilment…

…However most are holding themselves back from achieving all they are fully capable of whether that be consciously or unconsciously.

This is often due to things such as self doubt, challenges around self worth, lack of time or other barriers, And because of this they stay in a cycle of never truly reaching the level of success they know they are capable of whilst continuing to feel stressed, overwhelmed and often stuck.

Often the only immediate solution is to work harder and work longer hours, but this takes its toll on relationships, family, health and mental wellbeing.

During this unique session, David will share with you 3 proven systems ANY high level business Man can use to quickly shift up his life, get on track and create a life that excites and energises him, regardless of what he has tried in the past.

You will leave the session with 3 powerful strategies to move you and your life forward.

David will also show you his ‘C4 Method’ that his coaching clients are using right now to make more money, get in great shape, increase mental focus and have more time freedom to be with family…ANY Man can add this into his life for dramatic results in less than 30 minutes per day.

THIS EVENT IS FOR YOU IF:-

– You have your own business and are looking to increase the level of success, income and fulfilment.

– You currently feel a little deflated, flat and unsure of what’s the next big move for you where that be in Business or life.

– You find yourself continually putting business and your customers first to the detriment of yourself, your own wellbeing and your family.

– You lack time, you have the resources to up level what you do, but more time is what’s missing.

Register for tickets ASAP to avoid missing out by clicking HERE

David

What The Hell is Personal Development

What the hell is Personal Development and why should you care?

Personal development for me is about growing and enhancing a person’s self awareness, capabilities, skills, behaviours and self confidence to uncover and unleash someone’s full potential.

It’s helping a person get past their limiting beliefs or self doubts and in truth it’s about getting MORE out of yourself so you can DO, BE and ACHIEVE all you are in any area of Life, Business, Career and Body.

In short personal development is about growing as a person in one area of life or all areas. However I believe for the BEST results its about levelling up in every area.

What I teach my clients is that their goal is off in the future, a bigger ‘thing’ they are trying to reach or accomplish. So compared to their goal they are smaller, further away and currently NOT ready to achieve it, Because if they could…They would have already.

It’s like taking on their own mountain but having to learn to climb first to reach the top.

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Knowing where you are right now is about establishing reality and current positioning, any coach that BS a client at this point isn’t helping them, they are hindering them. Knowing where you are, warts and all is essential.

So personal development is what bridges the gap between where you are right now and the goal you desire.

It’s centred around growing as a person in mind, body, skill, capabilities and confidence so you can conquer that goal. It’s you levelling up and becoming more as an individual…So now you are capable of attaining and owning your goal.

 

Without self development we wouldn’t have laid the foundations to reach our goal or hold on to it.

Any worthwhile goal is achieved this way, hence why personal development is critical.

I base my coaching around developing people and helping them get more out of themselves…More than they ever thought possible so they can set goals, increase their capabilities and then own the sh*t out of their goals.


The Process

My approach is based on 3 critical steps to show a person how to develop towards their goal/s:

  1. Clarity

  2. Confidence

  3. Performance


Clarity

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This is about gaining clarity around who you are and what you want. This for me is essential and was one area of life I was really stuck in. I just couldn’t get clear on who I was or what I wanted.

Often this is the part people miss and they design their wants by what others around them have or do. They basis their requirements off what they ‘think’ they should do or have and worse still what society or social media dems to be right.

This is making people feel more lost, isolated and frustrated than ever before.

By doing some deep self discovery work you can understand YOU, who you are and what life you want to experience everyday. In all honesty your career, business, income, home, relationships and lifestyle are behind this in order of clarity.

This part is about you and knowing what turns you on, what makes you tick and what inspires you. Everything else is there to enable this to happen.

Clarity is very difficult to achieve on your own because it requires you being asked great questions by a coach that can help you think deeper and really question yourself.


Confidence

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Another essential piece to the puzzle because a lack of self belief is the number ONE reason most people don’t achieve their goals or start in the first place.

A limiting belief, fear, doubt or insecurity is holding more people back from going after what they truly want than any other barrier.

So building self confidence, awareness and emotional intelligence is huge. A big part of my coaching is build around becoming self assured in who you are and what you are capable of. This is much more than just reciting positive talk. It’s about practising self confidence and knowing you.

Yes confidence is practised. I will have you look at any area of your life right now you feel confident and comfortable in. May be its work, or a hobbie..

Now ask yourself how long have you been doing that for? What makes you confident at it? How many hours have you put into it?

Confidence is partly about discovering yourself. Partly about doing something over and over to get better at it, and…Well you’ll have to become a client to find out the rest 🙂

Once you build self esteem you’ll be unstoppable.


Performance

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The final piece to the personal development system is performance.

Increasing your performance is essential because you can not become all you can be with the same habits, mindset, behaviours and actions you use now, Think about that.

There will be certain behaviours and habits you have right now that help you and you’ll be able to move forward with. However some are hindering you and you’ll need to ditch them or maybe you can re-shape them into better habits.

Increasing performance is all about optimising how you Think, Act, Behave, Eat, Move, Sleep and Produce to enhance you as a person. Giving you greater energy, clarity, focus, production and awareness…And reducing stress, overwhelm, fatigue, burn out and procrastination.

Once you have the clarity and the confidence, NEXT you require the high performance habits that will get you doing what you want to do every day to get you to your objectives.

I coach my clients how to enhance what they do so they can set out each day fully equipped to take it on.


What Next?

So the goal or objective you have set for yourself will become achievable once you can do the above 3 steps, Add into the mix; Strategic planning, breaking down limiting beliefs, accountability and daily action steps and you have yourself one hell of a system.

Are you frustrated because you’re struggling to gain clarity around your next career or business move?

Do you struggle with self confidence when it comes to making certain decision or actions?

Are you an ambitious person but feel lost or like you’ve reached a ceiling and not sure what to do next?

Would you like to become a more effective business owner or leader to reach a higher level of income and success?

Do you want to reduce stress and self doubt WHILST gaining balance in your Life, Body and Business for more fulfilment, value and success?

If so, then I am here to help!

If you are a corporate professional or business owner I will take you through a personally tailored program that meets your needs.

No more living or playing the game of life at an average level…It’s time to become all you can be.

I will work with you 1-1 for 3-12 months to help you get more out of yourself personally and professionally than you ever thought possible.

If you are interested in what I offer and would like to speak further, then message  at wilkinsondj@hotmail.co.uk or contact me via LinkedIn HERE