EVEN When She Packed Her Bags I Couldn’t See it…

Every morning for 6 years straight I got up at 4:45am so I could get ready to start work at my gym for 6am.

During the same period, every evening for 6 years straight I got home at 9:30pm from my gym…

I was Exhausted!

I was personal training AND running my gym at the time.

To get through this slog I “told myself” I was happy to do it.

Spinning lines in my head like:

“I’m making sacrifices to build my business”
“It won’t always be like this, next year will be different”.
“You’ve got to work hard to build a business”.

Of cause there’s a required level of sacrifice, hard work and commitment to create anything of value.
Because working 4 hours a week, whilst lying on a beach sipping Cocktails, making big bank sounds like a lovely story…

If only it were that easy.

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I remember all too well the moment my girlfriend got up and told me she was leaving me.

What a kick in the face that was.

See in my mind I was focused on…

I’m working this hard for us, I want to provide for our future, give us the life we want.

The house, the car, the holidays, the weekends away…The stuff.

So I worked ‘balls to the wall’ year on year grafting working 12-14 hour days, using my weekends to recover, only to go back to the grind come Monday and do it all over again.

Guess what she wanted?

Me (as surprising as that is), quality time with me, time i’m not spent on my phone answering enquiries or responding to emails and FB messages at 10pm at night.

Time with me where I wasn’t a tired, moody miserable bastard.

I had become so obsessed with business, success and chasing a dream…

That I ended up sacrificing my relationship, friendships, freedom and mental sanity.

I can look back on that time and be objective about it, but back then I thought what I was doing was right, even when my girlfriend was packing her bags to leave.

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I guess we don’t know another way…Until we do!

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If this is you, I empathise, I get it.

The focus is probably on creating the life you want, making £££ to provide for yourself and family and doing this whilst you do work you love,

But in the process are you driving a wedge between YOU and the very people you are suppose to be doing it for?AND it’s probably costing you sleepless nights, anxiety and a chaotic overwhelmed mind.
Probably to top it off, you’ll not be making the money you want for the sacrifices you are making.

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If you are looking for a “quick fix” solution because you have a similar challenge to what I had…
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the guru’s are wrong, There isn’t one.
There’s no easy 4 steps to fix it and turn it around so by next month life is good.

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BUT …

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There is a way ANYONE who is struggling and feels stuck in their business can “start” to break free…

If they are willing to work smart, create more self awareness and put the correct strategies in place over time, will a little help can become…Unstuck…
And I’m going to share with you how to START that process!
Tuesday 12th May at 8pm I am going to running a LIVE online…

Discover the C4 Method:

For Male Business Owners Who Feel Stuck, Still Busting Their Arse But Want to Unlock More MoneyTime and Freedom And Can Finally Access Certainty in Business

…All while working less and living more.

You can register you place HERE

 

OR alternatively you can continue to bury your head in the sand…
Keep working 12 hour days whilst giving away a little bit of your soul and mental sanity every day…

And keep pushing your love ones away,

 

The choice is yours!

 

David

PS –

I finally found the courage to change and implement the right systems and strategies and eventually me and my girlfriend got back together…

I’m actually marrying her on the 26th August this year. On top of that I now run a business I love, that no longer owns me and I can make good, reliable money from it.

Here’s that link again to the webinar if you want in:

https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_z_0VCChxT6e6LnA3Jr20Qw